Needing Some Counsel

Cute Avatar Mandi... if you want to talk to me, talk to me.

Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland

God, you people are amazing. This girl is probably in high school - maybe college - and you expect her to stay with some guy she's just not that into anymore? Good lord, why not just get married at 14 and skip all the fun of being young and free?

You mean to tell me that it's not OK to break up with someone for ANY REASON when you're not married to them? I guess it would have been better for her to just stay with the guy even though she didn't really want him anymore, just for the sake of loyalty. Nevermind her happiness or the fact that the longer she lives this lie, the more it's going to hurt him in the end when things don't work out somewhere down the line.

OH WAIT...maybe there shouldn't be an end. Maybe once you start dating someone you should just stick with that person forever, no matter what. Some guy comes along who you're more compatible with, have more in common with, and are generally more attracted to, but OOPS! Can't think about those things. That would be "disloyal." Better to just lie to your current boyfriend and stay with him to save his tender feelings.

She is in high school, I am in college... I told her to break up with me if she wanted to see someone else, and she didn't. She decided to cheat on me instead. So stop defending her.

and LeHah... you talk out of your ass a lot... so stop attacking her.

Jam it back in, in the dark.