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Posted by Visavi
It works with men, but it's your call.
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Not as well as you think. Once you've been downgraded to "just friends" status, interest is going to bottom out. Man and women can't really be friends as long as one party still has the desire to fuck the other, and men realize this on at least a subconscious level.
My suggestion? Play the scenario out in your head, and ask yourself just how hurt you'd really be by a "no" answer. As long as you're not the type to be emotionally crushed by rejection every time, is it really going to make things unbearably awkward if she turns you down?
Just put things in context. You can get turned down by 99 awesome women, but it'll be worth the effort when number 100 says yes. Fortune favors the bold, as the saying goes. The worst that'll happen is you'll have to set your heart on someone else. Just rest assured that nobody ever told date horror stories to their friends simply because somebody asked them out to the movies.
Well, assuming your line isn't "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" or anything like that.
Jam it back in, in the dark.