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Post ed by Lady Miyomi
I'm taking marriage seriously now because I won't have a repeat of what happened before.
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Somebody get Lurker in here. I had a big argument with her a while back over the issue of spousal abuse. She seemed to think it was impractical to expect someone to spend a long period of time getting to know someone, to glean out any potential wife-beating tendancies before rushing off to the altar.
You might not be able to learn
everything about someone just through dating, but you really have to give the relationship time to settle in, and the infatuation to wear off so you can appraise the situation objectively. Love tends to delude people into thinking marriage somehow changes things.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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