I can't dance, going to clubbing

Hey man i've dealt with similar situations and i hope i can help with something :

First of all : Going for 'bribery' is not the way to create any feelings, you buying her cousins stuff is not as good as you think it is, and so is giving her the toy you won (Although i support that, since you'd look gay going home with it, but next time use a little care-free approach to giving to her, i hope you didn't give it to her like a Valentine's day gift ) But like i said, 'bribery' most cases gets you nowhere fast and even may backfire. You're better off with what you offer as a person, not a 'provider'.

Second : Don't play hard to get, don't throw yourself at her, and don't wait neutrally for her to 'come and get you' (the chances for that are VERY slim).
Confusing? I'll tell you what works for me alot, try being as cool-headed as possible, but use 'golden moments' like that look in the car, women - unlike men- value looks and body language much higher, and tend to detect them with much higher sensetivity. When you look try to make your look mean something like 'i'm into you' (simply by thinking of it) but not 'I'm desperate for you', it's hard and i sound like i don't know what the hell i'm talking about but believe me it's much easier than you think.
Merely thinking of something while in the moment is usually enough to convey it. But always remember that you kinda 'put yourself out there' and got pushed away, so consider the next try your last and don't put too much hope on it, always think "If it works out then cool, if it doesn't then we're probably not 'compatible' anyway" that should give you a little 'laid-back' mood which shows a little more confidence which is always sexy. Women -as far as my humble experience has shown me- enjoy knowing that you KNOW what you want but don't let what you want degrade you. Before this is taken the wrong way lemme tell you this : Confidence is sexy only when you do show interest, totally ignoring a girl isn't confidence, it's dumb and how can she know that you've not really "ruled her out" instead of just playing it cool?

I guess all i mean to say is, you have to KNOW that you're worthy of her and act upon that, don't be all like "I just did that, will she like me now?", be confident that you have a multitude of great things (And that she at least knows most of them, which is what those signs show, even if they don't mean attraction) Now all you have to do is create some more attraction and act quickly when you see a spark, if that doesn't work then it probably never would have, and you just saved yourself staying lost more...ponder that =) .

Hope that helps at all .. =)

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Scrap the present, until you're in a full-fledged relationship, did you not read what i said? Bribery doesn't help...!!

Also, tomorrow's 'date' MUST end in a kiss, or else believe me you're very probably off into the friend's zone..

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Can any girl on GFF confirm this please? Given the previous happenings, isn't it unwise to give gifts before the relationship is established? How many times have words and actions spoken to you much better than physical gifts (No matter how insiginificant in physical value and significant in emotional value, such as saved stuff from the first date..etc)?

Trust me dude, forget the gifts, you should think for now that YOU are the best you can offer to her, let the gifts come in when they mean more. Like in her birthday or your anniversery.
For now it's a definite don't, trust me.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Yeah see what i mean.. Visavi paid attention to a detail i totally missed, cuz she's a girl and like i said, females detect stuff more accuarately.. That she sounds romantic And you wanting to give her gifts also means you're a bit romantic too, at least that's how we guys try to get romantic. So she sound slike a perfect fit for you and i need to shut up :P .. Just don't go overboard with anything.

Nice Visavi, discussing stuff like this does help, i should pay more attention to shit like that in real life myself !

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I love how you're ignoring every piece of advice not according to your wuss-built mind.

If you wanna look like a kiss-ass pussy go ahead.

Wtf is the point asking advice when you're not gonna take it, you idiot? It's like talking to a brick wall, god you remind me of my cousin.

What a douchebag...
Go ahead get her a gift. I'd advise you to buy her a car while you're at it, and why not offer to clean her house every day when she ain't there? How about taking the laundry out for her?

My god, where are the real men??!!

I was speaking idiomatically.

Cookie only reads thread titles !

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

More like the guy's very thick in the head, period.

FELIPE NO