My Grand Romantic Gesture (thread 2.0)

"Worst fear number 1 - she and some other kid being an item. As she put it, she is "kinda sorta but not really" dating him, because she doesnt really want that right now. It wouldn't be so bad if the kid wasn't a complete fucking toolbag, but he is. He's a typical college moron who wears American Eagle, blasts rap music, has no wit, but makes up for it all with his good looks. It's totally disgusting and makes me sick to think of her having feelings for him."


Well if that is the case, you shouldn't really be pushing it at the moment either if she really isn 't looking for a boyfriend/relationship. Also it sounds like you are griping a lot about him...that shouldn't be the case for this clearly exhibits envy. You shouldn't wish for others to break up due to your insatisfaction, that is totally wrong. I say you fix that first before you even start a relationship for...even if that is a natural reaction, it isn't appropiate. How would you be able to handle this green envy when you "allegedly" get married and she spends time with "friends" that are men in which you misinterpret this for "flirting." I say you somewhat fix this first for you seem to be venting a lot at this guy (heaven forbid calling him a shithead boy <_<)

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Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland

Just so you know, it's VERY RARE that a girl will ever come right out and say, "Sorry, I don't like you and you don't stand a chance." We try to cushion the blow by saying things like, "I don't want a relationship right now" or "I'm flattered that you feel this way about me." 99.99999999% of the time when a girl says something like that, she just isn't interested in you romantically and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Also, just because you two would make a great couple doesn't mean you ignite anything in her. She can think you're the greatest guy ever and know intellectually that you two would be great for each other, but if that spark isn't there, it isn't there.

Hahah ever a chance though that she might ever take an interest? Despite this rejection <_< (yes...it is lame being a guy XP)

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You think that might work? Winning someone's interest is quite challenging especially when it comes to women (who are eclectic beings...)

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.