Question for the girls

Hey, Smoodle. I think I can answer your questions, however, don't loop me in with the rest of the girls, OK?

Yes, I get annoyed when dudes ask me for my phone number/do you have a man/can I take you out. The reason why is mainly the type of guys it is. It's usually guys I see "shopping around" for other girls and sometimes they're the same ones that talk bad about other women. I also get hit on by older pieces of crap that have no business asking anybody out. I haven't seen a decent one guy step to me yet (not like I want one to...), but that's a long story.

I think a lot of other girls are afraid to go on dates with guys they've never met is because they don't want to appear like they're easy or something...at least, that's what I hear one of my ex-friends say. I don't date because I don't want to right now and I'm too busy.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Amen, Sassumomo!

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Smoodle

Ok, so let me ask you this: You say you've never had a decent guy ask yet, but how do you know this if you don't know him? How do you judge these guys at first? I'm guessing most of them come off as very cocky, am I right?

You are so very right. Yes, most of them ASSUME that I'm going to fall head over heels and say yes. Most of the time, I either walk away like I didn't hear anything or I'll say no politely. However, there are some that can't take no for an answer. Then I'm forced to be mean (which I don't like to do).

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Fyodor D.

Is there a way in which a guy can approach you which will not set off the "cocky alarm," but will set off the "confident bell?"
If so, how?

Yes there is. I've had polite people approach me before. I was more inclined to talk with them then some guy that runs up to me going, "Hey baby! Can I get your number?" or some other stupid crap.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

I guess the main portion of advice I can offer as being a girl who's sick of all that hyped up crap is PLEASE BE YOURSELF!!! Omg, I can't stress that enough! Nothing irritates me more than a person that tries to be more than they actually are to impress a girl! It is quite personally the stupidest thing you could so (unless the girl you're going after likes that crap, then she's an idiot). Originally is better than seeing difference variations of the same act.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by valiant

Wait...so are you suggesting that guys who are usually timid and don't do anything shouldnt go Out and Above? (For example showing up randomly and giving you flowers when it is not typical of their nature?)

No no, that's not what I was suggesting. I meant about being cocky and arrogant.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?