How do u tell a guy that you don't want a relationship with him without hurting him?

Originally Posted by The Female Population of Earth

How do I tell him that I don't want a relationship without hurting him? I don't want him to get hurt because he is [insert physical or emotional problem] and if anything happens to him (God forbid) I don't want to be the cause of it.....

Either way, you're going to hurt him, its obvious. End it as fast as you can and be as blunt as you can. From ambiguity comes hope, and hope is misleading. If you cut all strings and leave no oppurtunity for "maybe in the future," and you stop flirting and don't lead him on, you'll both be much better off.

This is from experience.

Jam it back in, in the dark.