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Originally Posted by Cyrus XIII
An ex-girlfriend and a good friend of mine once started a (distance) relationship behind my back. I knew them very well, so I was aware that a) he was looking for something steady and fulfilling and b) her men-consumption-rate had become something like 1/month. After I learned about it (through her blog) I told them right away that I wouldn't go along with it, for their own and my peace of mind. They made their decision, we stopped talking. I had second thoughts about the issue for months but looking back I still consider it the right thing to do.
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I don't know, that seems kind of presumptuous, don't you think? Why
should you have anything to do with it?
Anyway, echoing what Devo said. Sometimes the friend/ex can be a dick about it, like our friend quoted above. If it bothers them, then it bothers them; you do what you do. Also I expect time would be a factor; three years is a long time, and if their relationship wasn't all that important or the breakup all that bad, it should be fine. So in short, ignore this post because it's superfluous, just do what acid does.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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