How old is too old?

Originally Posted by Neogin

I would say just treasure it. You're a virgin only once, and why waste it?

Do virgins get special privleges or something? Maybe a card that gives you 10% discounts at local merchants? I never heard about this.

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Originally Posted by David4516

What I am asking is this: do you believe that someone can reach an age where it is no longer normal to be a virgin? If so, when?

Yes, and you have reached it.

It's a stupid question. Most people your age have already lost their virginity; even people who wait until marriage frequently marries young, assuming that they got a boyfriend or girlfriend that they like enough to have sex with.

You're really missing the point, though. If you're embarassed about being a virgin, go out and find a girl you like enough to have sex. If you are not, then don't. That's all that matters, bragging either way won't help you out any.

Also I like how I'm not the first person to call folks on the "treasure your virginity" bullshit. The people who say that do not know what they are missing, and it is hilariously obvious.

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Originally Posted by soniclover

The Vast majority are.

You think you're special because you keep your legs closed and spend your Fridays alone. Compared to your kind, everyone is sex-crased.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by Visavi

I probably talk to the wrong people then, b/c most of my friends who got laid many, many times say: "You're not missing much".

Perhaps you are misunderstanding me. I'm not talking about regular Joe Average, not a big hit with the ladies, maybe he's a little shy, he's going to college next year and he's a virgin.

When I'm talking about the people who have no clue what they're talking about, I'm talking about this guy:

Originally Posted by soniclover

A question for some of the people in this thread.

How old is too old to not have an STD? Since the sex is so good to keep risking getting it. How old should I be to have my first STD?

I know how easy it can be to take things seriously because you have something in common with the more, shall we say, extravagant people. But I think it's safe to say that I'm not talking about you.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by soniclover

So, I have no clue what I'm talking about, eh?..or possibly you just don't agree with what I'm saying.

And this all started because I made that "the Vast Majority of people are sex crazed" comment, eh?

Just a question for you, a lurker. What's your definition on 'sex crazed'? (This question isn't meant to start or continue a fight either)

You're sixteen. You are by definition speaking out of your ass.

Furthermore it's alarming how much you're hung up on other people's sex drives. This is a very important topic to you, I guess, but it's making me uncomfortable.

that is my answer to your question, in case you had difficulty interpreting it.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by soniclover

Just so you know, it's not that hard to figure out the Human mind and what the body craves. Physiology has always been a nice interest of mine.

Reading the science articles in Time magazine for three years does not make you much of an expert in behavior. Otherwise perhaps you would not think that the vast majority of people are sex-craved and that virgins have exceptional self-control.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Originally Posted by soniclover

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You're so adorable. I already know why you think people are sex-crazed if they so much as look at their genitals. I am saying you are mistaken, and hold a tragically hilarious definition of the term 'crazed'.

Here, I'll take pity on you. You are very young, coming off of the hormonal rollercoaster that is puberty. Do you think that the way you currently feel about sex and arousal is how you always will feel about them?

Perhaps they did not have an exposé on sex hormones since you started paying attention to the news.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Originally Posted by soniclover

How exactly are you guys getting the idea that I meant "Virgins have more self control"?

You keep insisting that people who've had sex are sex-crazed, and the corollary being that those who haven't are not crazed. Look, please stop repeating yourself. Your argument has some logic to it, but it's very elementary at best, and ignores reality. Everyone who has had physical contact with their genitals, even if it's just wearing jeans or a spontaneous boner, knows that touching down there feels good. You don't need to make a mess of yourself to know that. I mean christ, do you honestly think most people start masturbating because they know what an orgasm feels like already, or because their buddies told them how awesome it'd feel? I was a teenager, once, and I have never had friends so close that they'd tell me something like that. Perhaps your friends are extremely creepy. I don't know.

Since you keep begging me to be your online dictionary, my definition of sex-crazed is having such an overwhelming lust that it interferes with your day-to-day life. This, obviously, is not trust for the overwhelming majority of people. Your friends might talk a lot about it, but they're still able to go to school without masturbating frequently or feeling up the freshmen between classes. This is because most people are mature enough to know when and where sexual stimulation is appropriate.

Your definition is ludicrous because it calls people 'crazed' if they merely desire sexual contact from time to time. It makes no distinction between how much, or how frequently; it makes no distinction on how far someone will go to achive sexual stimulation (manipulation, drugging, prostitution/soliciting, rape). It is ultimately divorced from all logic. Furthermore, you back up your argument (if you call it that) by saying that orgasms are addictive, without bringing up any proof of psychological or physiological addictive properties of orgasms. Your only proof is that "it feels good and people will want to do it more often." One time I found out how good it felt to scratch my feet on cheap, abrasive carpeting; I am not a carpet addict, a slave to itchy feet.

I can only assume that you feel the way you do about sex from a combination of an upbringing that strongly discourages sex and masturbation, and from having extremely strong sexual urges. I can't think of any other reason why a virgin who was only aware of his genitals for the past four years would have such extreme views of sex. So I'll repeat my question; do you honestly think that your sex drive will never change, or that it can only change for the worse?

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

No, Sass is right, it is lame to substitute porn for human interaction.

It's internet creepy when you justify it.

How ya doing, buddy?

If you never fall in love, does this mean you will die a virgin?

Is this what you want?

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

Originally Posted by Monkey King

Thought the deathbed pity fuck idea isn't a bad one.

Says you, you're not the one fucking a bald, bed-ridden bag of tumors.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Is it immoral for the elderly to have consentual sex?

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by speculative

People should have sex when they're mature enough.

If you're not mature enough for sex by your mid-twenties, when most folks are starting their families, maybe you have a problem that you need to address.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

No one but you said anything about having to start a family.

The word "mature" has lost all meaning for you, hasn't it? Either that, or you're completely illiterate.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?