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every so often, somebody comes into the advice colum complaining about their relationship or the fact they can't be with anybody and it usually comes down to the same conclusion, making poor excuses because your afraid to be rejected and your trying to find a trick or a sure fire way to know if he or she is into you.
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This nailed it. You guys are making excuses for your ignorance and incompetence, while getting defensive because someone noticed you're
not all that good with women. No one thinks you're a bad person because you haven't yet learned how to be comfortable around women, but at the same
time, no one wants to coddle your ass here because that comfort zone of blaming
the woman for your incompetence with them is what's holding you back.
Look here. Dark Nation, the reason why people blame you instead of
the woman is because you said yourself that you've tried to make it with
several broads but you haven't been successful with any. Occam's razor says something's wrong with your approach, not that each one of these disparate women are... I'm not even sure what you're suggesting that they are. Oblivious? Kindly not interested in you?
When Sass talks about the 'friend zone', she's not saying you can't make it with a friend, but that you haven't shown this broad that you're interested in her as anything more than a friend. Maybe you should try pushing it harder than you have currently. Being comfortable around women, getting them interested in you
as a person is only the first step, and just mastering that one step won't get you anything other than friends.
Darkmageozzie, blow your defensive bullshit out your ass. You have no right to say that
anyone's putting words in your mouth when you go on at length about how women have some sort of
entitlement issue that they won't flat out say the word 'no' when you ask them out. When you say things like 'women are obsessed with making men ask them out', that says that you're a coward
and you've never impressed a woman enough that she would want to spend quality time with you. Reading your posts, I don't blame them one bit.
You're an asshole who thinks you deserve a girlfriend because you can make nice with broads now and then. Your example of 'the kind of women you blame' being a classic Nice Guy strawman made me laugh. What do you blame her for, that she's in her romantic relations willingly? I don't think anyone
doesn't, but look at how defensive you get when someone blames you for being in your romantic relations willingly. What, you're not good enough to take your own medicine? Quit with the loser denial and maybe you'll be on the first step in becoming someone tolerable enough to be around.
Was
that direct enough for you?
How ya doing, buddy?
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