22yr old Arrested for raping 13 yr old met online

I too am lolling at all the folks saying "oh the kid totally wanted it". Thirteen year olds are stupid, have you all forgotten that already?

How ya doing, buddy?

Originally Posted by Chibi Neko

I think Angel has a good point about sexual socity between men and women. The more women a guy sleeps with the bigger hero he is going to be with his group, it's not true for all guys, but it is to a big number.

Yeah but what does that have to do with a woman preying on an idiot kid? That's like saying that women walking alone are gonna get raped because _______.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by Rainizzle Gangstashizzle

I think too much emphasis is being placed on this 22 year old as being predatory. Was the boy truly the 'prey' in this situation? The kid knew what he was doing.

Are you seriously saying that a boy, who knows that orgasms are fun, was seducing an adult?

What sort of demented asshole are you?

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Do you think you're so clever that no one knows what you're doing? You're defending a predatory, unstable woman and shifting some of the "blame" onto the victim because when you were thirteen you got laid. If your situation is analogous to this, you're justifying decisions thrust upon you in order to avoid the stigma of being a victim of male rape, of being deceived into thinking you want what she has to offer.

Of course, you don't think you were poorly affected by this. After all, you feel normal, right? You don't feel irrevokably damaged. Well, lest anyone thinks that statutory rape on a 13 year old boy doesn't affect the boy, here is proof positive.

Sociopaths think they're behaving completely rationally as well, not affected by their disorder since they make all of their decisions with a clear mind. What I'm saying is of course you can't tell how broken you are.

I am a dolphin, do you want me on your body?

Additionally, I like how rainman thinks the ability to determine you shouldn't throw animals and kick little kids means you are capable of consenting to an act that can turn you, magically, into a father.

Do you think a thirteen year old boy can be a good provider to his baby?



I was speaking idiomatically.

This is exactly what I'm talking about. You're exceptionally hostile and defensive when someone brings up the fact that a) you are not behaving in an acceptable manner, and b) you were in all likelihood raped as a child and enjoyed it, information you volunteered. Who was it? Was it family?



What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

I think we can reach a breakthrough here, to be honest. I think we can cut through the defensive mechanisms and start the healing.

FELIPE NO

Do you have any idea how much a person's brain can grow and mature around thirteen? I'm betting if you were "around 13", you were probably closer to 15. That is significant.

Do you think a thirteen year old has the capabilities to deal with a pregnancy he caused?



What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?

I can't believe you actually need someone to say that it is highly unlikely that this boy has or will suffer as much as someone who was violently raped. Christ.

All anyone's saying is that suggesting the boy wasn't manipulated, and that statutory rape isn't really rape, is ridiculous and worthy of scorn and suggestive of a fetish for incestuous, pedophiliac roleplay.

And yes, if a 22 year old offered a 13 year old cigarettes touting them as a relaxant, that would be predatory.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

are you seriously

seriously

telling me a 13 year old can and did manipulate an adult into having sex

also you seem to think we are saying that all predators are equally dangerous, please stop that

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Originally Posted by koifox

Yes I know at least one personally. You know they're out there, they're usually the ones who grow up to be predators and/or sociopaths.

I believe that you know a 13 year old who put the moves successfully on an adult. I also believe that particular adult was horribly broken, mentally retarded and/or punch drunk. That hardly counts, because those kinds of people are just waiting for someone to say go.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.