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Where I think people get fucked up is that they've been programmed to believe that love is somehow permanent or unchanging.
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Duo's right. The same feeling of 'love' you have for a person isn't going to last forever. Personally I think love is a strong feeling of attachment that comes when you and your partner's fates are irreversably intertwined. I don't mean that in some sort of stupid, romantic way; I mean when your boyfriend decides to do something really stupid like quit school even though he has no internal drive to learn on his own and get a job on his own skills and merits, and you're the only one
dissuading him, that's love.
or being a sap. Whatevs.
But Duo's right, you're not going to have the same feelings for your partner for the rest of your lives, even if you love him or her throughout.
Jam it back in, in the dark.