Your Occupying Romances (Crushes!)

It's creepy enough that you feel some sexual attraction to this girl, but a lot of guys your age, just coming out of their teens, still think of themselves as 'just a few years older'. Fine. It's creepy but it's not criminal as long as you keep your hands to yourself.

What I find significantly creepy is that you feel a deep, close attachment with someone who's basically a child. You mean to tell me you feel an adult's attachment with someone who's barely aware of herself as an individual? That speaks to an underdeveloped mentality in yourself, really. Something you try to hide by speaking as eruditely as you can.

You have Issues.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Yes, you sound mildly predatory.

"Oh, I can't wait to see what kind of person this girl will become!" Now, that's something parents and family members can say, but it's in fact entirely too intimate for a friend to say. Instead of having a crush on the future 14 Year Old Girl, why not have a crush on someone more your own age, and more the maturity you would like to see in this teenager?

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Aquas, I agree, I have been too harsh, and I for one would like to extend an olive branch to you. Please, show us your poetry. I'm sure your feelings are noble and good.

Originally Posted by Phoenix X

The reason pedophilia is looked down upon is not because the act of sexual intercourse is disgusting, it's because it fucks with the kid's mental development.

People don't finish their mental development until well into their late teens. I read about a study that said, in fact, that people don't gain the capacity to really get sarcasm until like sixteen or seventeen, for instance. I mean, just throwing that out there.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by The Wise Vivi

I guess all you have to think is a lurker is sarcastic over 75% of the time and that can help you in the long run.

I assure you I have spoken with the utmost sincerity in this entire thread. I honestly would like to read Aquas' poetry on the subject.

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No Radez, it's legit. Wikipedia isn't the be-all of knowlege.

Originally Posted by Aquas

Your hair holds steady its curls in
the heavy heat. The flavor of your cheeks
melts onto the neck of your dress
a most beautiful and daring design.

[...]

you stand erect and naked (it's cold)

[...]

I taste the air around you for hope.

[...]

You are a girl's blooming youth.

[...]

I see each time you breathe
rays of sunshine twist into your mouth
of those I allow you breathe

I am a young man's charm
to allow you the body's giggles

[...]

On the infinitum of layers
that make us think together
about the fantasy of us
making a sanctuary of a bed.

Absolutely wonderful, breathtaking imagry here. Do you have anything more about this girl, Aquas? I can't imagine the muse of love paid you a visit but once.

I was speaking idiomatically.

Well, I heard about it through the mainstream media. Also the internet.

What kind of toxic man-thing is happening now?

Originally Posted by Aquas

No, nothing more on her yet... Thank you for the comments! Admittedly I've considered doing a poem on the lust side of my feelings. But I haven't mustered up the raw emotion for that yet, and it would be kind of difficult, duely because she has barely matured into her body. Limits here.

Words fail me. Honestly, I'm speechless over here.

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Aquas, the reason why everyone's on your case is because there is nothing that attracts college-age men to snot-nosed junior high schoolers. If there's any warmth you feel for her, either you're a sick fuck (very likely) or you're extremely lonely and will reach out to anything female, and construct an elaborate personality for her that you will then attach yourself to.

Look, anyone can read between the lines. You say your poem is the soul, then say the feelings of lust very obviously outlined in the poem are disingenuous, but then say that the poem is out of place without such lustful feelings, and then say we should not bring the poem into it. It talks about you allowing her the right to laugh. You can't see anything wrong with that, of course, because we misunderstand. But look, you just said that it's the soul, and evocative of the warmth you feel for her.

No one wants to believe that they're a bad person, Aquas, and so you continue to feel that you are not. Maybe you aren't, but you aren't doing yourself any favors by continuing this fantasy roleplay with an idealized child that doesn't exist. And if you were to want to further your self-indulgence - and everyone does, no one but fictional characters are satisfied with unrequited love - you will be doing an innocent party a very grave injustice. Get out now and build a shrine to Brangelina or something, someone who you can't hurt.

And for god's sake, don't bitch about people misunderstanding you when you write so obtusively. It's not 'just the way you write' because you were using shorthand and slang in chat, just like everyone else. It's intellectually dishonest and so are you.

What, you don't want my bikini-clad body?