tl;dr

Originally Posted by eks

You need to get laid, A LOT. When you're counting how many hours you hung out, you're too fucking uptight. I mean, when most people hang out, they're carefree and don't really pay attention to how long they've been do what activity/activities they were doing.

Some ass should break that habit. (At least for a little while.)

You don't need to "get it out of the way". You need to get it into your life.

Funny thing. I've heard this a few times in conversations with people, but they never go on further, as in HOW one gets "laid. A LOT.". Just an observance.

As for your situation. MOVE ON, OR KISS HER. If all else fails... try going to a single's bar... after all, people there are there for generally the same thing: Drinks and Meeting New People.

Jam it back in, in the dark.