Sex: Take It Or Leave It

Originally Posted by Duo Maxwell

How can you not love russ all the time?

Sex is an important part of a relationship, not just sex, but physical intimacy in general. Yes, it's only one part of the relationship, but those who think that it's some tertiary, remote, loosely related, nebulous, almost-non-entity are fucking kidding themselves. I would not be in a relationship with someone I could not/would not have sex with.

My bf used to get sex from girls like 5 times a week, and generally was obsessed with it for a while. Uhh... He was one of the most shallow peeps in the world and hung out on the streets all the time, but when he met me he kinda spent tons of time just speaking to me and spent most of his cash (as I did with mine) on visiting me IRL and shit.

and he kinda refrained from sex for like 8 months before meeting me. partially prolly because he hates cheaters so much that he'd prolly kill them, but also because he felt that a sexless relationship with someone you love is prolly better than no relationship at all. he prolly also didn't care much about it because he got it so much before he got with me, but, its importance isn't ALWAYS big, it varies from person to person, belief to belief and whether you be deprived or not.

its nowhere near a non entity, even for him (he enjoys it with me alot o.o) but it can be ignored for a higher purpose if needed, though, never painlessly. it all depends

Jam it back in, in the dark.