I love people that are naturally charismatic. I know that's an umbrella term, but it really makes me smile whenever someone is charismatic.
By such, I mean:
- they will politely be interested in what you say
- they tend to be talkative but let you talk and will genuinely listen to you when you have something to contribute
- they'll apologize if they perceive themselves to be rude to you in the slightest way
- they are truly polite, not in the overexaggerated or feigned way
- they are not judgmental (VERY important) or critical, and are usually open to many things
Out of all my friends, the ones I admire the most are the ones that have these traits. It's hard to find genuine people that I can admire to this degree, because I believe that these kinds of people are naturally charismatic, and that it's almost impossible to force someone to have this many traits unconsciously.
Just thinking about people like this peps me up too
Jam it back in, in the dark.