I seem to naturally skip the girl part.

Originally Posted by Mojougwe

So yeah, I'm one of those guys who want to get MORE familiar with certain girls (school, dorms, neighborhood, wherever). But it seems I just don't know how to actually get the asking and doing parts to work.

I myself understand how to ask, but there's a part of myself that just resist that. The other day in Chem Lab, my group's professor allowed everyone to pick a partner for the experiment. I immediately asked the girl next to me if she wanted to be partners. She said yes. So, why is it I can ask her for that sort of stuff, but not to eat lunch together or whatnot? The answer is simple, I'm either embarrassed about something, or just chicken to do it.

See, I know what my problem is and the solution to it, just I can't get myself to do it!

Help me Dr. Phil GamingForce! You're my only hope!

It would be more of a shy factor rather than embarrassed. For me, i am shy to just look a girl in the eye, but i overcome that by having almost half of my friends being girls. How does that work? Well, just pretend like you are just talking with a friend or the usual typical mind tricks. If you cannot do that then just don't think about it and just ask before your mind has a chance to catch up with your words. Or just write it out on paper and later explain to her why you did so. I mean, she cannot be angry with you for being shy...unless she is mean or something.

Jam it back in, in the dark.