How old is too old?

Originally Posted by Duo Maxwell

Why does sex always equate to longterm attachment?.

That right there is the golden question. You hit the nail right on the head there.

Anyway, I'm 20 years old and I just had my first kiss about 2 days ago. I mean at first I held off cause I wanted my first time to be with the person I settle with for the rest of my life. However, the more I think about it, the clearer it becomes to me that without experience and knowing what's really out there, I'm not really gonna be able to truly settle down. (Also, I think it's more difficult for us gay guys to have romance/sex fall right into our lap through our daily lives without pursuing it) Anyway, the point is there's no real right age. However, that doesn't mean you should just stay put and wait for it to happen. Get out there and mingle.

Jam it back in, in the dark.