Research suggests men are clueless when it comes to women.

Once again, Sass speaks the truth. You know I can slightly emphasize with some of the things that Dark Nation & Darkmage Ozzie are saying, because to be honest I use to be like that.

The fact that it took a long time for me to be involved with someone and I always thought it was the women's fault for the main reason why I was single, but as I got older I managed to get out of that mentality pretty fast. As people have said if you like somebody than go up and talk to them, its as simple as that. Using an excuse as silly as you can't read their signals is incredibly poor. I discovered that the hard way. You know I'll be incredibly honest, I don't have much confidence, but that never stopped me in expressing interest in someone I was attracted to. I choose not to be as upfront and blunt as Denicalis and other members on this site, but it tends to be a slow going process, but by the end of it, I know if there is going to something more to this or if I gained another friend.

You know what, your not going to avoid signals or subtle hints even if your in a relationship whether your going out with a man or woman. It is always going to exist. There is no fun in a relationship if you have a fucking road map that dictates what you should be like or what to do when your involved with your significant other.

Over time I managed to become more aware of female body language, and I can be a bit slow, I probably missed out on some opportunities in my life, but I don't fucking regret it. I deal with it and move on.

Personally I'm not a big fan of women giving signals or subtle hints, but whatever I deal with it. My fiance gives me subtle hints, but at least I've been with her long enough to fucking pick up on it.

When it comes to dating, don't make childish excuses about how you can't find anybody. Don't expect an opportunity to fall in your lap, if you want to be with somebody at least put in some fucking effort.

From my personal opinion, Denicalis tends to be a little bit more dedicated to this subject is that every so often, somebody comes into the advice colum complaining about their relationship or the fact they can't be with anybody and it usually comes down to the same conclusion, making poor excuses because your afraid to be rejected and your trying to find a trick or a sure fire way to know if he or she is into you. Its not rocket science, just talk to them. Overall, I can't speak for him that is just through my observations.

In terms of the article itself, as Lehah as said, it is just a waste of time, I guess a whole bunch of people got bored and just decided this tidbit of information would be relevant in terms of explaining male to female bonding.

Originally Posted by Denicalis

I should sell fucking books on tape or something.

I honestly think if you did, you'd have a whole group of people weep all at once, but it could drastically decline the amount of emo kids.

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