No snooping here.
Both of us know things about accounts down to bank account pins, but neither of us really do anything about it. He never logs on to my GFF account (or any other account), and I never touch his.
He reads my journal, I read his, but that's only because it's right here and we're both active members.
When we browse the internet, we're in the same room, but we never really look to see what each other is doing unless we're asked to. We stay out of each other's business as far as tinkering with electronics, reading emails or IMs, anything of that nature.
I won't even open his mail without permission. It's addressed to him - that means it's his business.
We trust each other. Not to imply that other couples who don't do what we do DONT trust each other, but we consult each other if we want to, but we never really stick our noses into each other's business. There's no need to. If there's a problem, we'll talk about it, from bills to phone calls to internet drama.
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I'll agree with sass on this one as well. I'm getting married in less than six months me and her have access to just about everything. We know each others bank pins, we all know the passwords to our email or any other forum sites we frequently visit.
We just have that level of trust that we don't have to keep anything from each other, the only thing we are protective over is email or actual mail. I could read her email and all of her private messages if I really wanted to, but then I would be losing her trust.
We never open each other's mail unless we have each other's permission to do so. If anything does come up we always talk about it and try to come up with a positive solution.
Jam it back in, in the dark.