What does this mean? (My first girl problem)

Try to make this a relationship a learning experience.

I do have to agree with a lot of the things that soluzar has said, but its probably best for you just to let it go. Move on with your life and you'll eventually find someone else for yourself that will bring happiness into your life.

My first relationship my gf ended it after 11 months and it was totally unexpected and I didn't see it coming whatsoever. When the break-up happened i was too focused on what I did wrong and I wanted to know the true reason why she actually broke up with me. I use to stress about it all the time, I wanted to know not for the fact of trying to get back together with this girl, so that if I ever end up in the same situation again I can try my best to learn from my past mistakes.

The fact that she said she ended the relationship because she wanted to get to know you better and she still wanted to hang out is literally taking the nice way out of it without trying to hurt your feelings.

Don't think that you did anything wrong to ruin this relationship, if the girl in question truly cared about you she would give you honest answer. I don't think you can really build up a good relationship if you can't be honest with each other. I'd rather someone break up with me and give the honest answer not matter how horrible it is, then someone trying to sugar coat it.

Jam it back in, in the dark.