Love or sex?

If it was truly a choice between the two, and there were no exceptions then I would have to choose love.

I do agree with some of the members on this site, that you need both in order for your relationship to last. You need to have that emotional connection with your special someone as much as a physical sexual connection with that person.

I kept saying to myself when I was in high school and in my early years of university that I don't need sex, I just needed to have that emotional connection to be truly satisifed. Then I eventually met my fiance and she was the first person that I had a sexual relationship with and then I realized how important sex does play in the long term stability of a relationship. I take a lot of pride that the person I lost my virginity to I'm going to marry.

Even though sex was kind of an issue in the beginning part of the relationship, we finally got our life to a point in which its stable, sometimes its tough with me being away from her at three months at a time. The sex life I have no complaints whatsoever.

If its thing I appreciate more than sex is the amount of love and respect I have for her. The emotional connection I have with her is something I truly can't explain because its just so great that me and her can have the most meaningful conversations. The love I have with her is better than what any sexual experience with her could possibly give me. Even though you need those two aspects to have a stable relationship.

As a stated if it was a choice between the two without any exceptions it would have to be love.

Jam it back in, in the dark.