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Originally Posted by Tama8-chan
There's a general guideline when it comes to most friendships:
Never date your friend's ex.
There's even another rule I was told, that seems compliment the first one:
Never date any of your ex's friends.
I've been wondering about these 'rules' for a while now, and I've been told again and again, especially by girls, that dating your friend's ex, or dating your ex's immediate friends is an absolute no-no.
Some people are absolutely fine with it, while some people avoid such associations like the plague.
It's been nearly 3 years since my friend broke up with his ex, and I've been friends with her since then, but he doesn't know about it. Whenever we go out for lunch or something, I feel as if something is developing between us that would take us further than just being friends. I wouldn't mind going in that direction, to be honest. But I still keep in mind the possible negative reaction my friend would take.
Has anyone else been in a situation where you found themselves going for your friend's ex, or them going for you? If you did get together, did it work out?
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In all honesty...I personally think that whole rule thing is crap. I wound up dating one of my friends ex's and we're still together to this day. Nothing bad has gone between us cept me stealing the covers at night but yeah.
Jam it back in, in the dark.
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