How do you tell someone their partner is cheating?

Not telling him is a bunch of bullshit. If your friend resents you for watching his back, then he's not much of a friend. Don't listen to the others and do your friend a favor. It's better if he finds out sooner than later.

Any friend that blames you for the unhappiness is an idiot. It's not you that caused the unhappiness. It's the girl. Man some of you must have some pansy friends.

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Originally Posted by a lurker

You would be surprised how easily many people would fold under pressure and betray the 'bros before hos' edict.

I don't think it's about that though. I don't even believe in that saying. It's just that his friend has a right to know and if I were in his case, I would tell my friend because I think that's what a good friend would do.

What if they're having unprotected sex and he catches something from her that she got from someone else she's cheating with? It's farfetched, but it's an example of watching out for your friends.

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What is up with this bullshit? What kind of friends do you guys have? What kind of friends are you people?

"Hey some asshole girl is doing something terrible to my friend. But hey, I don't want to tell him because he'll get mad at me! Waaaaah I'm a big baby who has no confidence in myself or my friendship with others. Waaaaah!!!"

Do the right thing for your friend.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Originally Posted by Shin

There's looking out for your mates and there's being an interfering busy-body and with something like this, you'll always be perceived as the latter.

That's the thing I don't understand since I know for a fact that my friends would want me to tell them if something like this happened. I guess I don't have friends that would rather live in ignorance. It's a shame that most people do from the looks of this thread.

How ya doing, buddy?