Do you ever try too hard in a relationship and waste your time in the process?

Usually, you find the really good qualities about someone. Then, when you start to find out the bad ones, you keep in mind the good ones as the reason you are with that person despite the bad ones.

Is this your first girl friend? SOmetimes, people hold on because they don't want to let go, as letting go is hard.

And as for your less than flattering description, it makes me wonder even moreso about my previous question. Not trying to be mean or anything, but if you seriously find nothing in the relationship AND see those negative qualities in her, then I am wondering why you haven't ended it already.

Jam it back in, in the dark.