Tough times

Yes, I definitely have had hard rough times. My relationship (and now marriage) is intercultural which means there are tons of misunderstandings, cultural differences, etc.

I think for us, ultimately, our love for one another got us through it. Even when I am angry at her, I still love her (then as my GF, now as my wife). I think that is what you might want to begin thinking about...the bottom line...do you love this person. What about in ten years? THirty?

Some of it just takes time. A lot of time. Both in getting use to the other person's quirks (and vice-versa) and them being able to find out the things that REALLY annoy us, and to work on those things.

Someone has mentioned giving enough space. Have you done that? Space is invaluable. Everyone needs space and sometimes those little arguments are due to having a lack of space.

Edit: Whoops, I missed the last post....sorry about that. Hope things work out...

Jam it back in, in the dark.