NSFW - Serious sex discussion

I don't remember exactly when the thought of sex came to me. I believe when I was in grade school, fourth or fifth grade perhaps some kids were talking about it. Though I do remember one time they were asking me if I knew what 'virgin' meant. Being my naive self at the time, I thought they meant the astrological sign Virgo, and not having sex. I believe they explained that being a virgin means you like to have sex with a dog or some bullshit like that.

I've never had a conversation with my parents really about sex. As I was getting older my mom talked to me about sex by directing me towards a PBS program about sex. And she'd just make the off comment remark, use protection if I was going out with a girl and assumed I was having sex. That's pretty much the extent. My dad, never really mentioned anything about sex. In general, I really wouldn't bother talking to my parents about sex. I feel I'm knowledgable enough on the subject and I can look something up myself if I have any questions.

Why is my own family shy about talking about sex? I dunno, because of it being 'icky' or something? I've been pretty disconnected from my family in general recently so I guess that has something to do with it. Sex as a conversation starter would probably be a bit much at this point.

For the most part I take my friend's sexcapades with a grain of salt. I generally do not ask them, they just flat out tell me whether I care to know or not. I really don't let them influence me in sex relationships and relationships in general.

Religion has not played any part for me. Well I guess since I'm an Atheist that it would play some part. But regardless I find the notion of no sex before marriage to be illogical, bullshit and unrealistically ideal that really serves no point at this day in age. My girlfriend is Christian, but her faith sometimes teeters on the edge and she likes to pick and choose from the religion it seems. She's not a virgin at all, long before me and we go at it like rabbits.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

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How do you view masturbation DURING marriage?

I view it as a healthy, non intrusive way to release oneself. If I'm not getting sex, or if I'm too far away from sex, I'd rather sit down with a porn and masturbate. I know some women would hate that I idea, but then I present this to them; would you rather the husband jerk off or go sleep with another woman for pleasure?

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I find it hard to believe that atheists don't have any sort of restraint upon sex other than general preferences of their opposites themselves. Does having no sort of basis of faith pushes you to HAVE sex immediately?

No, entering into adolescence and hearing about it from friends or even from watching movies or whatever certainly push in that direction. If I had done things differently in high school, I would've lost my virginity long ago. Being a virgin doesn't really mean anything significant.

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Is it possible to have lustful sex when you're in love with this person?

Yes that is possible. Lustful sex is just tearing off each other's clothes and going at it like bunnies. Love is generally slower, longer and more sensual with alot more foreplay and kissing. I'm not too big on kissing, but my girlfriend is. Are most women like that, really into kissing? Though I do enjoy giving my girlfriend pleasure in many ways.

There's nowhere I can't reach.