Do you prefer tactical or fragfest style FPSes?

I prefer fragfest games. Mainly because when a play against a skilled player, they don't kill me within a second of him sighting me. It puts less hardcore players on an equal footing. Plus the weapons in fragfests tend to be far more accurate, allowing me to better hit my targets with a weapon other than the sniper rifle.
Funny this is my cousin can kill me consistently at Counter-Strike, but he is worse than me at Unreal Tournament. I guess I flourish in games where a single shot to the arm doesn't kill you

Jam it back in, in the dark.

The thing is with CS, when you die, you're out of the action for the rest of the round. You don't respawn. CS would be much more fun if you could respawn, the easier you can die, the quicker you should come back to life. Plain and simple.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Are they any FPS games that balance the two aspects well? The only game I've ever played that seems to come close to that is Battlefield (but I haven't played that game in ages).
Generally there are too many games with realistic situations and weapons that go for the tactical approach. I'd like to see a fragfest version of CS (though I haven't sampled many FPSes, so I might be ignorant to the existance of a lot of them).

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.