Gal Pal problems.

We attract what we are, and we are what we surround ourselves with. This girl attracts (and puts up with) psycho guys. Therefore, she has problems. A lot of guys actually seek out girls like this subconsciously so they can rescue them, but girls like this don't want to be rescued. They want boyfriends who treat them like shit. If they didn't want it, they wouldn't have it - it's as simple as that.

Also, she's going through enough turmoil right now without having to also deal with the fact that a person she considers to be a friend and confidante has developed romantic feelings for her. If you really want to help her, slap her across the face - hard. Then ask her how she liked it, and tell her that if she doesn't get her shit together she's in for a lifetime of that sort of treatment from men.

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Originally Posted by Aequitas

To retort, she really doesn't go for that type on purpose. It just ends up lke that.

That's what I used to tell myself, too. Then after lots of reading up and learning about what causes this kind of thing to happen, and eventually going through counseling, I found out that women who mysteriously keep ending up with these abusive, mentally ill or just plain jerky guys definitely do it on purpose. It's more of a subconscious thing, but it's definitely a choice we make. Check back with her in ten years and see if her track record magically changes (without getting some help) or if she just happens to have hooked up with five or six more guys just like the ones you described.

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Originally Posted by LeHah

She skipped over you, man. You're second-string, you're Ducky from Pretty In Pink.

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This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

OK, this guy is slamming her against walls and telling her he doesn't like the tone of her voice? This dude is a wife-beater waiting to happen. And she's allowing all this to continue? She either has no self-esteem or she's used to being abused by men (probably her own father). In either case, she's got more problems than you'd want to deal with, I can assure you.

I'd stay friends with her, because it definitely sounds like she needs a friend, but a relationship with someone who is emotionally unwell usually ends badly. At your age, is this really something you're capable of dealing with?

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You know what would be funny? It would be hilarious beyond words if the next time he shoved her up against a wall she pulled a set of brass knuckles out of her little Coach bag and beat the living shit out of him in front of God and everyone. That would teach the little scumbag to shove girls.

How ya doing, buddy?