Love or sex?

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but the question is can it last?

I say no.

I completely agree with everyone who said there has to be both, but I guess for me it really depends heavily on how long I intend for the relationship to last. If it's someone I plan to grow old with, I'd have to say that love is more important, without a doubt. However, at this stage in my life I can imagine being in the kind of relationship with someone where we didn't completely and unconditionally love each other, as long as the sex was great. I cannot envision being in a relationship with someone I really loved but was not having amazing sex with.

Ask me again when I'm 60 and I'll almost certainly give a different answer.

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I still don't see what's wrong with admitting that there needs to be both. It's almost like some of you get offended that other people require love as well as good sex.

To Geddings, I think it's very naive of you to say that if you had someone who loved you for you, you wouldn't care. I call bullshit on that. I think you would most definitely care in the long-term if you weren't being fulfilled sexually, unless you honestly don't care about sex at all.

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But haven't you ever been in a situation where you think someone is adorable and cute and fun and all that other junk but you have no intention of ever sleeping with them because they just don't do it for you? I think most of us have. And some people - out of desperation or lack of sex drive or whatever - will happily settle for this kind of "love."

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

I think anyone who would dispute that is crazy. And I know exactly what you mean. I've had the exact same experience with people I initially thought were attractive, and vice versa.

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