Is this normal?

I agree with Lighter, although you may want to think about finding a guy whose personality is better AND who you find physically attractive. Personality is important, but that physical spark is what makes it a romantic relationship instead of just a friendship, and if you don't have that spark, all you have is a friend. And that's not a bad thing, but it takes more than friendship to make a dating-type relationship work.

In summary, I'd go with the hot one until a better fit came along. Just make sure he knows you're not interested in anything long-term. It would be unfair to make him think that he's "the one" if he's just a fling.

How ya doing, buddy?