How do u tell a guy that you don't want a relationship with him without hurting him?

Originally Posted by rocketdog

This is definetly the correct route to go.
Better yet, make it an ex-boyfriend. Not even kidding.

Nobody in their right mind wants to deal with a girl who hasn't gotten over her fuckin' ex. TRUST ME

I also have to agree with rocket. Guys love to spout that "just tell us the truth" business, but in reality, that rarely goes over well. At all. I've tried it at least twice, and I did it in as nice a way as humanly possible, and both times it ended in total disaster. It takes a very mature person to not get defensive when a person tells them that they just aren't attracted to them in that way. Just start occasionally mentioning a boyfriend.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

It's probably a lack of physical attraction. That's what it usually is, I think. That's my guess, anyway.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

What, crows feet and arthritic knuckles? Anyway, physical attraction is rarely about looks. At least that's been my experience.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.