What do guys notice in a girl?

Originally Posted by Balcony Heckler

what I look for for is how good a girl can be inside first, rather than outside first. it's what led me to my first wife, whom I'm happily married to now

Your first wife? Are you planning on getting a second one sometime soon or what? Here's a tip: Never refer to your wife as your "first wife" if you're planning on keeping her.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

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I once had this BEAUTIFUL friend - absolutely devastatingly BEAUTIFUL - who said she was jealous of me. "Men have to like to you for whats inside you, not whats outside."

This is so true. Obviously it doesn't happen to me anymore now that I'm married and older, but when I was younger I sort of developed a complex about this very thing. I got burned so many times by guys who pretended to be interested in me just long enough to get a date with me, but it would turn out that they really weren't interested in anything I had to say or in learning anything about me. And I was never even that good-looking. I can only imagine how shitty it must be for those drop dead gorgeous women. If I had looked like that, I think I would have uglied myself up on purpose every time I left the house just to fool all the assholes who only wanted to get into my pants.

There's nowhere I can't reach.