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 Member 600 Level 38.35 Mar 2006 
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I think amicable breakups usually take time. I don't know of many cases where two people have broken up and have immediately been able to switch to being just friends.
The person who was most in love (and that's usually the one who was dumped) is the one who has the hardest time being friends, in my opinion. I dated a guy once who, after I broke up with him, literally COULD NOT stop mentioning constantly how miserable and lonely he was, etc., and I finally had to cut off all communication with him for a while. He begged me not to, but I told him it was the only way he was going to be able to get on with his life. And it worked. We're friends now and there is no awkwardness between us at all. How ya doing, buddy? |
Member 600 Level 38.35 Mar 2006
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One more thing: If your ex is not really over you or you are not really over him (or her), it's going to be next to impossible to be friends. If someone is trying to get you back with every word and action, that's really not a friendship. That's more like stalking. Maybe not stalking exactly, but something very much like it.
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