I can't dance, going to clubbing

Originally Posted by BlueEdge

Do something special for her, see if you can win her over. Take her out on a magical date, candle light dinner, serenade the works! Picnic, watching the sunset/rise, you biking and her sitting on the back thing. Watch a movie, a chick flick unless she prefers otherwise, like if you can find one where the chick is older than all the better.

lol...i just thought of an idea (its cheesy, but it might work)
so let's say you watch notting hill (pretty good chick flick), at the end when he wants to ask her out, he says like "if i got down on my knees and begged you to reconsider" or something like that. so when the movie is done, ask the girl out like they did in the movie, using the exact lines. well depends if she likes the movie, but heck its an idea
But be yourself, tell her how you feel. If she still doesn't like you and can't get over the fact that you're younger than I don't think it'd work out that well anyways.

If she was a man and you were a homo that might work, sure.

As was already said, you're 25 and asking for advice on dancing and dating and you asked a girl's permission to kiss her? What the hell have you been doing for the past 9 years? I assumed from the thread content and your terrible writing skills that you were about 16 or something. Maybe she's saying you're too young not because of your actual age but because you need to grow the hell up a bit.

I think you've blown it already with this girl. Your best bet is to move on and try to find someone more on your level.

How ya doing, buddy?