What causes us to dance when there is no music?

Topics similar to this come up pretty often here and my answer is always the same.

Anyone who goes through life being too much of a pussy to ask a girl out and settles for "Just being friends" is destined to get overlooked in favour of more proactive types their entire life.

That played out excuse "I didn't want to ruin the friendship" is fucking bollocks anyway. If you ask her out, the worst that could happen is she'd say no, things would be a little awkward for a month tops and then she might even come round to the idea once she knows how you feel. If you keep quiet then she'll never know you fancy her so will never consider the idea of going out with you. Eventually she'll meet someone else, you'll get jealous, she'll pick up on that and your friendship will be down the toilet anyway.

In short, give up on this girl, you lost her when you "Became just good friends" and you'll never, ever get her now. For future reference though, stop being such a pansy, grow some self-respect and next time you like a girl, tell her for fucks sake.

It's hardly rocket science.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Originally Posted by NaklsonofNakkl

I do agree with your point, and i did ask her out eventually before we became good friends so in turns i wasn't hiding, and afterwards for future reference i took that idea into cause and now just get to know girls instead of actually 'befriending' them. It is one of the nice things with love, you can either take the road of friend, or the road of more than friends. In my case i tried to make a third road that combines the two and i got lost. Oh well...better luck next time eh?

Yeah, there isn't really a middle ground in my experience. Just so long as you've asked her so there's no regrets about missed opportunities, you should probably try to move on.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

I figured Tourettes Syndrome from the title actually.

How ya doing, buddy?