Negative feelings towards love...advice appreciated.

Originally Posted by Nikodr

Please stop acting like a wussy.Stop looking to find women that have relationships with your friends.Love?Hah?Did you have any experiances with her to talk about love?

Love is something deeper than a hard errected pennis in the morning that someone pulls and pushes up and down for the woman he feels attraction to.You are just overly attracted to her.Love her?No if you look a bit closer you will see that behind the world love is the lack of meaning in your life,and the desire to be accepted by others.You need to find new things to do and feel so full that you will not need others to express your need for love.

What the FUCK are you even talking about?

Anyway, Justice-man, the line "you're so young, shut up and get back on the horse" is so shitty and tired it's not even worth posting. I can say that you (and everybody else) would do well to stop making such a monumental deal about love.

EVERYBODY thinks it's some big, stupid, wishy-washy mystery, but it's not. Love is just good feelings. If someone consistently makes you feel good inside, then you (can) love them. You can't very well be jaded against good feelings, can you? It's as simple as that.

As far as meeting new people goes, just do your thing. According to my expansive wisdom and vast experience, people who go out of their way to try and find TROO LURVE hardly ever get what they're looking for. You won't feel like you're being very productive, but it's really the most efficient way to go about it. Look at it this way - if you go out of your way to attract a mate, then you're not being yourself, right? And a relationship founded on a false image isn't a sound relationship.

So, despite my best efforts, I will still end with a tired cliche:
Be yourself.

Spoiler:

"I go to the wise man for help, and the wise man sayeth, help thyself."
-Old Klingon Proverb

Jam it back in, in the dark.