I can't be alone in this.

Passive people are pretty annoying, and are especially noticeable when doing something as simple as choosing a place to go out and eat - they'll refuse to pick a place, or even contribute what they're in the mood for, and then later you'll find out that they really didn't want mexican food that night, boo-hoo. I can't really imagine somebody WANTING to put up with that sort of constant annoyance.

Passive-aggressive is a lot worse, of course, where they milk the guilt for all it's worth and constantly ruin things they don't want to participate in (instead of just saying they don't want to, for Christ's sake, I CANNA' READ YER MIND).

Jam it back in, in the dark.