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Karasu · Oct 23, 2007, 03:37 PM

I recently had a friend go off on me just today. Allow me to explain.

We were talking and what not, and he was telling me he had a bad day or week so far. I asked why, and he said his BF's Ex died just this weekend. I didn't know the person who died, but I did feel remorse for his BF. I asked my friend though how he passed away, and he just went off on me, saying I was disrespecting the person who died by asking him the cause of death.

Now personally, i've never heard of anyone getting offended over that, and it wasn't my intention to offend. Was I in the wrong though? My friend is notorious for being ridiculously over-dramatic, so I put that into consideration, but still...was this a custom I just didn't know about?

Help me get the picture on this.

Jam it back in, in the dark.

Karasu · Oct 23, 2007, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by kinkymagic

Sounds like he was just looking for someone to take out his feelings out on; just let him vent for now.

Yea I guess that might be the case, but you know...i've had a rough past with him, so it's hard for me to think "oh he's venting". This is a person that you have to walk on Eggshells for, because if you say one thing he might not like, he goes off on you and then acts like he's above you, which he was doing today. I mean, it wasn't his ex, it was his BF's ex. It's not as if there was a strong rapport between the two, infact he has said many times he has not always agreed with his BF's ex.

He talks down a lot and over-reacts, so I might drop him. I don't need to spoken to like i'm an animal and treated like one too. I allow him to speak to me that way, so no more.

There's nowhere I can't reach.

Karasu · Oct 26, 2007, 11:59 AM

Originally Posted by Dee

Let me guess, are you both in high school? Either way, it's normal for people around that age to blow things out of proportion to create "drama". I'll just let it go. You did nothing wrong.

Actually, this dude is in his late 20s. He's like 26.

This thing is sticky, and I don't like it. I don't appreciate it.

Karasu · Nov 3, 2007, 10:38 PM

I personally felt he had something to hide about this guy, something that might shame his BF or his BF's ex. So..who knows. He's cool now and stuff, and no I havent gotten rid of him, however my defenses will be up and ready incase shit like this happens again.

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