How much importance do you give to physical appearance?

Originally Posted by blue

more than i'd like...

i blame it on my ex. he was very cute, and i really loved him... so now i'm afraid i won't be satisfied with anyone less cute or less smart or less understanding...

gonna be hard to find.

I'm in the same boat. My ex was a 10... now I've gotta find an 11 cause I've always gotta do better than what I had. It'd be like getting a used honda civic after you've been driving around a BMW... you can only graduate to a Porsche or a Ferrari afterwards.

Physical appearance is important because you can't have sex with a personality. I don't care how intelligent a girl is while we're at it in the sack.

"Oh baby, you're so intelligent! Your IQ is going to make me come!"

In addition, physical appearance can reveal a good deal about a person. Have you ever just glanced at somebody and been able to sum up their life story? People know that appearances matter, and most of them dress accordingly. If they want you to think that they're a nerd, or a lazy ass, or a jock, or a prep, or an emo bitch, they'll let you know by putting on the appropriate costume.

I like natural blondes with blue or green eyes. This is important because at some point I'd like to have kids, and I'd like them to resemble me. Chances are that if I marry a blonde girl, I'll have some redhead kids which will be awesome. I prefer them to be between 5'2" and 5'7" and anywhere from 105-120lbs (respectively), with a pretty face, great legs, and good teeth. I don't think it's too much to ask.

People who act like physical appearance doens't matter much are full of it and are just trying to justify their own unattractiveness.

Jam it back in, in the dark.