Jul 28, 2006, 01:22 PM
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I had a very similar experience except I didn't know my guy was bi until 2 years later when someone told me that he was dating a guy around the time I was dating him. I tried the same thing with making friends with him, but he would fake it around my parents and then stop talking to me when they were not near me. It's good that you want to bridge the gap and have her as a friend again, but you really do need to talk to her about it and I don't really recommend mentioning the chat session unless you really have to.
An on-line guy was using my friendship to cheat on his girlfriend. He was one of those guys who seemed to say sweet things to all his female friends, but he took it way too far in one chat and I sent her the transcript. She broke up with him and then a few months later told him that I gave her the transcript. He got really mad at me over it, but still wanted to remain friends b/c he had some crazy idea in mind that he still had a chance of banging me. I'm sorry, but he betrayed his girlfriend and he did the same thing to me when at one moment he will be talking really nice to me and then all of a sudden go off on me out of the blue when we would be talking about something totally off-topic.
If you do build a friendship with her, be careful. Sometimes these frienships can work, but most of the time they do not work because of the issue of trust.
How ya doing, buddy?
" Oh, for My sake! Will you people stop nagging me? I'll blow the world up when I'm ready."--Jehova's Blog
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