Question for the girls

I think just presumptiously wandering up to a girl and asking for her number is quite cringeworthy and I can understand that it might freak out the girl, or make her think you're only interested in her for the most superficial reasons. And women don't necessarily dress "sexy" to please men. They might do it to feel good about themselves. I think any guy who knew that he was an object of lust for a variety of ladies would feel flattered at the very least, and I don't see why it would be any different for women; it doesn't mean they'll put out at the drop of a hat though. When i'm going out I like to make sure that I look and smell nice because it gives me a bit of a confidence boost and it's nice to get checked out. I am one of these former "shy guys" who has grown up and so I still find that kind of interest from women both novel and enjoyable. If a woman came up to me and asked for my number without getting to know me though, i'd think she was a little dense/shallow.

Jam it back in, in the dark.