Needing Some Counsel

See, I think LeHah takes issue with the callousness of doing what Aise did. She obviously didn't care enough about her ex or else she wouldn't have left him (unless he was an asshole, which she hasn't claimed he was). However, if you don't care about someone enough to stick with them, you're probably not suitable for each other in the first place, and so (despite the intense PAIN he must have felt) she was doing him a favour. Perhaps it is just morbid curiousity that leads someone to inquire about their ex; it doesn't help anything in the present, but a person may wonder in what way they were deficient, so they could avoid repeating mistakes in the future that might jeopardise a current relationship.

Loyalty is pretty high up for me in terms of importance, but if you consider that a lot of teenage relationships can lack substance and are of a fleeting nature anyway, I don't think it's so bad to "shop around" and find out what you like either.

Jam it back in, in the dark.