My girlfriend has pushed, pulled and threatened me in efforts to get me to marry her, yet, I'm not married to her and I'm not planning to any time soon. My reason? I'm not in love with her and I don't trust her. (She's really impulsive.)
Obviously, I take marriage seriously.
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On another subject, I don't think a person can EVER know another person 100%. People are just waaaayyy too complex. My husband and I will be married for 11 years in May, and I am STILL learning things about him, and he sure as heck doesn't know everything about me.
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To add to this, I gotta say that people also grow and change thru-out their life. The more you learn about them, the more changes you see.
This also is part of why marriages end. One person will change (sometimes dramatically) and the other person may not know how to handle that change.
Jam it back in, in the dark.