how do you know if you really love someone?

Originally Posted by Duo Maxwell

The idea that you have to find that "one" that you settle down with or enter into a permanently binding contract with is actually an entirely "made-up" concept that has developed out human social evolution, and for a long time it "worked." But, not so much anymore.

The marriage itself maybe, but the act of "to find the one" is probably a relatively recent phenomenons, anthropologically speaking. In many cases people didn't use to have a choice in the matter.

Jam it back in, in the dark.