Originally Posted by The Wise Vivi
You know what? If you don't feel comfortable, then don't tell them. If you think they need to know, then tell them. Just shrink the feelings and tell them.
If it is a chore, then don't do it. Just tell people you know when you are comfortable enough around them.
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I couldn't agree more. Whatever you do, just don't let it bug you too much. It got to me a little too much a while back - I guess wanting to stop lying to your friends about being bi (with a pref. for men, just like you :P) and having best friends that are more or less homophobic isn't the greatest combination.

I'm even having trouble telling a friend that I know won't be bothered (because she's already friends with a gay guy). . .
Jam it back in, in the dark.