Originally Posted by Gechmir
150lb may be more of a bullshit number than anything. I'm sure if I weighed some girls I've seen, I'd be surprised at their weight.
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Haha...yeah...I've noticed a
lot of guys are terrible at guessing the weight of women, and usually it's more than what they think. Hell, I can't believe how much some people have thought I weighed (not saying I wasn't flattered, but you know...girls don't always weigh less than the guy

).
I'll answer the 'male question.'
I usually notice body first, then the face.
I tend to like skinny-to-normal guys. When I see a really skinny guy (
not drug-addict thin, I have to point out), with especially narrow hips, I think it's outrageously attractive -- visually. The counter to this is, I don't like the same body type naked, and they aren't as nice to hug. Also, really skinny guys make me feel self-conscious, so usually I don't get my hopes up. After all, they're probably not interested in me, either.
"Normal" guys are the ones I actually look at with serious interest...I remember the first time I thought a non-skinny guy was attractive, and it was because he had the nicest ass I had ever seen on a male o_O (and I'm definitely not a butt girl, so it surprised the hell out of me). He wasn't fat, but he wasn't thin, and he wasn't necessarily toned; hell, he was an artist, but back in high school he had previously been on the football team.
The other thing I almost require is to be as tall or taller than me. A guy who's significantly shorter than me makes me more self-conscious even than a skinny guy; I also like to have some leeway, because I'm fond of platform heels that make me about 5'10".
Also, I'll throw in the obligatory "personality dominates everything else" bit. Because it's the damned truth...I've been interested in fairly large guys even though it's not my thing physically, but they have a great personality.
Jam it back in, in the dark.