Coming out to family and friends

Although it would be nice to clear the air if you are dating, I think that you should only broach the subject when you are ready. That way you don't have to worry about what to say, you'll be prepared, and maybe it won't feel so awkward to talk about. Until then, treat your sexual preferences as they are; a personal matter. You shouldn't feel obliged to share if it makes you feel anxious in any way.

Personally I don't think I will ever understand why it's such a big deal; people are entitled to their opinions and I can respect that, but if they are truly supportive of you then it shouldn't cause any tension.

Jam it back in, in the dark.