Originally Posted by AliceNWondrland
The person who was most in love (and that's usually the one who was dumped) is the one who has the hardest time being friends, in my opinion. I dated a guy once who, after I broke up with him, literally COULD NOT stop mentioning constantly how miserable and lonely he was, etc., and I finally had to cut off all communication with him for a while. He begged me not to, but I told him it was the only way he was going to be able to get on with his life. And it worked. We're friends now and there is no awkwardness between us at all.
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You know, this is exactly how things were with my last boyfriend. When I broke up with him he just wouldn't stop trying to meet up with me and all he would talk about was how he was lonely and upset. I ended up changing my number and all kinds of things to keep him from contacting me. He seems okay with it all now we're friends; he's moved on and found another partner, but now the awkwardness is on my part. I've no idea why either.
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