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Originally Posted by blue
Hmm, I thought someone would be saying the opposite. I mean, most people have wanted to do those things at various times in their lives, but have had to make an effort to abstain. Isn't that what often makes a certain trait or quality admirable? What I'm hearing you say is, "If you have to try, don't." There are many other reasons people might have for being straight-edge... good reasons--so they make that effort. My family, for example, would be very upset if I began smoking--my mom, in particular. That's a good enough reason for me to put the effort out not to do it (with the exception an experimental cigarette, perhaps).
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But if you actually wanted to smoke, then you're defying your own personality by being a non-smoker (quite a poor point considering addiction but I think it applies for everything really). I guess I meant it as more of an image point. If I wanted to impress people by being t-total for instance, it would be pointless because I enjoy the things I do.
well, besides smoking, I resent that I ever started =(
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